"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference."
----Reinhold Niebuhr-----
Changes, everyday we see one. Some welcoming, others we dread while some lies ignored. Some changes we make for us, some are done by others for us and the most formidable ones are which happens on its own. Whoof...we fight so much of it. Me and these sneaking specie doesn't go well hand in hand. If you are wondering as to what urges me to say this i would simply say that meeting handful of old but new-to-know friends make me do this.
I was delighted to get the invitation of girls day out by one of my bestie and she was expecting some of our common pals whom i hadn't met since ages. Looking forward to a pleasant evening (which even turned out to be one) i entered her house with a heart full of curiosity to know about the chirping-lil-girls (what we all used to be). As expected, the conversation which started with hugs for all soon progressed to slang, giggles, boys, dating, boozing and bitching, assembling the pleasures of female fantasies. We talked of our likes, dislikes, habits, expectations, aspirations and repercussions. Boundless we talked and heartily we laughed. Though, midst of so lot activities my mind just could not gave up and kept collecting the undercurrent tit bits which i forgot to pick up.
Bunch of girls who merrily chose their lifestyles without a considerable intervention of their parents seems to let loose their own reins. Who would imagine a smart girl decked in advocate's attire, driving to the court and assisting one of the famous lawyer firm, to attempt suicide and not to be sure of her own accord. Thankfully, she has loving family and friends who helped her in getting out of depression.
As we grow up, countless changes happen within us and around. Affections, attraction, confusions, ups and downs happens frequently. Some go through it unaffected while some may find a place to doom down. We crave for attention and usually end up in a mess, considering it to be the worst for us, we give up. Secluded, trying to hide it within ourselves, we place ourselves in pool of agony. Fresh out from the umbrella, fluttering to fly high, we build our own dream castles which often get tainted by insecurities and assumptions. Exploring taboos, ignoring stern gaze often leaves a gap between guiding and wondering eyes. Stumbling along the unseen path, care is often discounted. I wonder how do boozing and eating non-veg become a parameter to be tagged as "Cool" among friends. Doing the restricted, is followed blindly.
These changes are welcomed with a zeal and gets changed into nightmare in no time. Changes shall be made within to come to an agreement with the changing life. It is bound to come, stay and leave its mark, it's all up to us how do we adapt to these changes.
Bunch of girls who merrily chose their lifestyles without a considerable intervention of their parents seems to let loose their own reins. Who would imagine a smart girl decked in advocate's attire, driving to the court and assisting one of the famous lawyer firm, to attempt suicide and not to be sure of her own accord. Thankfully, she has loving family and friends who helped her in getting out of depression.
As we grow up, countless changes happen within us and around. Affections, attraction, confusions, ups and downs happens frequently. Some go through it unaffected while some may find a place to doom down. We crave for attention and usually end up in a mess, considering it to be the worst for us, we give up. Secluded, trying to hide it within ourselves, we place ourselves in pool of agony. Fresh out from the umbrella, fluttering to fly high, we build our own dream castles which often get tainted by insecurities and assumptions. Exploring taboos, ignoring stern gaze often leaves a gap between guiding and wondering eyes. Stumbling along the unseen path, care is often discounted. I wonder how do boozing and eating non-veg become a parameter to be tagged as "Cool" among friends. Doing the restricted, is followed blindly.
These changes are welcomed with a zeal and gets changed into nightmare in no time. Changes shall be made within to come to an agreement with the changing life. It is bound to come, stay and leave its mark, it's all up to us how do we adapt to these changes.
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